Using phrases and terms that denote possession of another person – e.g., “my friend,” or “a colleague of mine” – is common practice. What I’ve observed to be uncommon is reluctance towards use of such phrases and terms. One may be apt to find it silly, if one were to express “I don’t feel comfortableContinue reading “Possessions”
Author Archives: Ken Leng
Heartbeats
I feel you Or is it me? – Tap, tap, tap I hear. It may be you, and it may be someone else; I won’t be fooled by appearances. – Will you feel me? – There’s no reason to, but if you can’t help it, it’ll be hard for us to be close, unless youContinue reading “Heartbeats”
On Natural Disasters & People
“While a hurricane may be a blessing in disguise As it brings people together, as they work to bring about outcomes that are impossible to bring about without the help of others As it provides us with the opportunity to be in each other’s debt, An even greater victory would be to welcome a hurricaneContinue reading “On Natural Disasters & People”
Motivations
To think about my motivations is interesting. There are many things–tools–I don’t want to commit to using, since I’ve come to appreciate how different things can be more or less useful in different circumstances. However, if there is one thing I’m committed to, I’d have to say that it’s continually paying respects to the factContinue reading “Motivations”
A 2022 New Year’s Reflection
When one considers how the influences in their life have shaped themselves, they must give attention to multiple versions of themselves. A few examples of versions of oneself that should be given attention to when considering how the influences in life have shaped oneself include ones that are past, future, fictional, imaginary, and potential. IfContinue reading “A 2022 New Year’s Reflection”
Kirito
“‘In the end, it’s just a game, so do what you want. If you want to kill someone, kill them. If you want to steal, you steal.’ I’ve met more people who think that way than I’d want. In a way, it’s true. I used to think the same way. But it’s not true… ThereContinue reading “Kirito”
Bam
Am I climbing the tower right now? Am I in a tower? Am I an irregular, like Bam? – In cycling, on the way to work one morning, I reflected on the fact that I have the option of stopping at stop signs like I should, as a “vehicle on the road.” I also haveContinue reading “Bam”
If life is work, then music is life
Months, maybe years, of agony and suffering —practice sessions, after practice session; then a performance, which may be a competition, or a spectacle that you may or may not be able to keep yourself together for; then, a roaring applause. Maybe, musicians should approach work like they approach music. Let me take that back: speakingContinue reading “If life is work, then music is life”
Looking back on the last 300-something years of my life
Today, I am apt to entertain the idea that there may be some benefit in looking back on my life as if I were positioned some 300-something years in the future from now. This is my way of paying respects to the idea that there is benefit in reflecting on your past experiences upon transitionsContinue reading “Looking back on the last 300-something years of my life”
My Reflection — 1
When I look in the mirror, I may or may not see what other people see when they see me It’s a reflection It looks like a person It’s not exactly me, since it’s a reflection Is it impossible for one to see themselves? When I look in the mirror, I see someone who appearsContinue reading “My Reflection — 1”